Upholding ties of kinship is one of the best acts of worship by means of which a person draws closer to his Lord, who commanded it, and warned against cutting it off. He even deems severing ties of kinship a cause to incur His punishment, and its upholding as a good deed warranting reward. In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ stated the virtues and merits of upholding ties of kinship in this worldly life. The reference to ties of kinship incorporates all one’s relatives bonded by kinship ties, whether they are heirs or non-heirs, and the obligation of upholding ties of kinship is further emphasized the closer in kinship a relative. He ﷺ stated that upholding ties of kinship is rewarded with having one’s Rizq (provision) blessed, and whoever wishes to earn such reward should uphold ties of kinship. He ﷺ also stated that such a good deed is rewarded with having one’s lifespan blessed, meaning to guide him to acts of worship and obedience, preoccupying his time with what benefits him in the Hereafter, and guarding him against wasting his life in other futile activities. It could also mean that his good remembrance would live longer after his death. It has also been said that there are two ends to one’s life on earth; one end is unconditional and only known to Allah and the second is conditional. Allah, Exalted is He, commands an angel to write down the lifespan of a given person, and it is said that he also writes: “If he upholds ties of kinship, he shall live until such-and-such time!” The angel does not have knowledge of whether or not this person’s lifespan shall be extended; this is only Known to Allah, Exalted is He. Muslims are urged to uphold ties of kinship in countless religious texts. Upholding ties of kinship can be done by visiting one’s relatives when they are sick, checking in on them, paying them visits, talking nicely to them, helping them do what is good and righteous, spending in charity for the poor among them, offering gifts to the rich ones, and the like of what is customarily considered a means to uphold ties of kinship. It is noteworthy that ties of kinship are not merely upheld with those who uphold ties of kinship with us. The Prophet ﷺ said: “A person who perfectly upholds ties of kinship is not the one who does it to reciprocate or recompense those relatives (for being kind and good to them), but the one who truly upholds ties of kinship is the one who persistently upholds them even though such relatives have severed ties of kinship with him.” [Al-Bukhaaree]. It is deduced from the hadeeth that some good deeds may have lasting impacts and keep the doer’s good memory alive after his death, and may cause his lifespan to be blessed, beyond his actual lifespan..