إِنَّ الصَّبْرَ عِنْدَ أَوَّلِ صَدْمَةٍ "
Narrated Thabit Al-Bunani: Anas bin Malik said to a woman of his family, "Do you know such-and-such a woman?" She replied, "Yes." He said, "The Prophet (ﷺ) passed by her while she was weeping over a grave, and he said to her, 'Be afraid of Allah and be patient.' The woman said (to the Prophet). 'Go away from me, for you do not know my calamity.'" Anas added, "The Prophet (ﷺ) left her and proceeded. A man passed by her and asked her, 'What has Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to you?' She replied, 'I did not recognize him.' The man said, 'He was Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)."' Anas added, "So that woman came to the gate of the Prophet (ﷺ) and she did not find a gate-keeper there, and she said, 'O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! By Allah. I did not recognize you!' The Prophet said, 'No doubt, patience is at the first stroke of a calamity.'"
مواضع دراسته في كتب التخريج والشروح
فتح الباري شرح صحيح البخاريج١٣ ص١٤١·كِتَاب الْأَحْكَامِ
عمدة القاري شرح صحيح البخاريج٢٤ ص٢٣١·كتاب الأحكام
إتحاف المهرة بالفوائد المبتكرة من أطراف العشرةج١ ص٥٣٩·أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكِ الْأَنْصَارِيِّ
تحفة الأشراف بمعرفة الأطرافج١ ص١٤٠·حرف الألف
طرقه ومواضعه في الكتب الأخرى
مدار الحديث: أنس — ٣ طريقاً في ١٥ كتاباً
رواه عنه: ثابت (ت ١٢٢) ×٢٧، سعد بن سنان ×٣، عطاء بن أبي ميمونة (ت ١٣١) ×١