The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed men to treat women well, and he urged them to show kindness to them. He (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was the best example to this ummah, so he was the best, most compassionate and kindest of people when dealing with his family and in his treatment of them. One example of that is what the Mother of the Believers ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) speaks of in this hadith. When she (may Allah be pleased with her) was asked about how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was in his house, and what he used to do, she said: He was at the service of his family, meaning that he would help them with the tasks that they did. That includes the fact that he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) – as is narrated in Musnad Ahmad – used to look after himself, milk his sheep, patch his clothes, and mend his sandals. And when the time for prayer came, he would go out to pray with no delay. This was by way of teaching the ummah so that they might emulate their Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), who did whatever he could and did whatever household tasks he was able to do, and would look after himself in some cases. This indicates that there is nothing contrary to dignity in doing such things, whilst also being keen to fulfil obligatory duties to Allah. This is a way of achieving balance between all the duties and obligations that life may place on a man’s shoulders. This hadith indicates that one should go to pray when the time for prayer comes, and not be distracted by engaging in any worldly matters, whether one is an imam or member of the congregation. It indicates that leaders and people of virtue and prominence may take care of their own affairs, and that this is one of the actions of the righteous, following the example of their leader (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)..