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Riyad as-Salihin, 1597

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said:

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "It is not permissible for a believer to forsake his (Muslim) brother for more than three days. If three days have passed, he should meet him and greet him; and if other responds to it they will both share the reward; but if he does not respond, he will bear his sin and the one who (has taken the initiative to) greet (the other) will be absolved of the sin of forsaking (one's brother in Faith)." <b>[Abu Dawud]</b>.

وعن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال‏:‏ ‏

‏لا يحل لمؤمن أن يهجر مؤمنًا فوق ثلاث، فإن مرت به ثلاث، فليلقه، وليسلم عليه، فإن رد عليه السلام، فقد اشتركا في الأجر، وإن لم يرد عليه، فقد باء بالإثم، وخرج المسلم من الهجرة‏

‏‏.‏ ‏(‏‏(‏رواه أبو داود بإسناد حسن قال أبو داود‏:‏ إذا كانت الهجرة لله تعالى، فليس من هذا في شيء‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏

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In-Book Reference
Book 17, Hadith 87
Sharh · explanationclick to expand
<b>Guidance from the Hadiths:</b><br> 1) It is impermissible for a Muslim to forsake his brother for more than three days.<br> 2) Spreading the greeting of peace among Muslims is one of the reasons for fostering love and entering Paradise. A Muslim should be keen on applying this prophetic guidance of spreading the greeting of peace among Muslims, and initiate it to those whom he knows and does not know.<br> 3) The occurrence of desertion and enmity among Muslims is an aspect of obeying the devil, and a reason for alienation between the believers.<br> 4) Insistence on desertion and abandonment without a valid Shariah reason is one of the major sins that makes the doer deserving of punishment.<br> Note:<br> When is it permissible for a Muslim to desert another for more than three days?<br> It is permissible to extend the period of desertion when this would realize a Shariah interest, like when the deserted person is persisting on committing sins in public. Desertion in this case is meant to deter the sinner and warn the people of his evil, so there is nothing wrong if he is deserted beyond three days, as this is considered a treatment for him and deterrence for those who act like him. This, however, should be done to honor the right of Allah Almighty, not for one’s own interest.
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