Sahih al-Bukhari, 2844
sahihNarrated Anas:
The Prophet (ﷺ) used not to enter any house in Medina except the house of Um Sulaim besides those of his wives when he was asked why, he said, "I take pity on her as her brother was killed in my company. "
حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى، حَدَّثَنَا هَمَّامٌ، عَنْ إِسْحَاقَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم لَمْ يَكُنْ يَدْخُلُ بَيْتًا بِالْمَدِينَةِ غَيْرَ بَيْتِ أُمِّ سُلَيْمٍ، إِلاَّ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِ فَقِيلَ لَهُ، فَقَالَ
إِنِّي أَرْحَمُهَا، قُتِلَ أَخُوهَا مَعِي
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- In-Book Reference
- Book 56, Hadith 60
- USC-MSA web (English) reference
- Vol. 4, Book 52, Hadith 97 (deprecated numbering scheme)
Sharh · explanationclick to expand
The Prophet ﷺ was the most loyal person to his Companions due to his noble character and good conduct, as he ﷺ always appreciated their sacrifice and efforts to support the religion of Allah, Exalted is He. In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet ﷺ would not frequently enter a house in al-Madeenah - other than his own houses - except the house of Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her), the mother of Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) – the narrator of this hadeeth. Her name was Sahlah, and it was also said that her name was Rumaylah or al-Ghumaysaa’. The Prophet ﷺ would not visit a house of a woman other than his wives except hers. The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked the Prophet ﷺ about the reason that he would often visit Umm Sulaym in particular, so he ﷺ replied that he sympathized with her and took pity on her because her brother, Haraam ib Milhaan (may Allah be pleased with him), was killed in the expedition of the well of Ma’oonah. The Prophet ﷺ mentioned “in my company” to mean that he was killed while being one of his soldiers, who was on a mission that he ﷺ commissioned, because the Prophet ﷺ did not witness the battle. The Messenger of Allah ﷺendeavoured to look out for her after the passing of her brother who attained martyrdom. Indeed, offering consolationand solaceis a good deed, and it is even more effective when it comes from the Prophet ﷺ, the best of mankind. It is noteworthy to mention that Umm Sulaym and her sister, Umm Haraam bint Milhaan (may Allah be pleased with them) were the maternal aunts of the Prophet ﷺ through breastfeeding or blood; thus, it was allowed for him to be alone with them..