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Sahih al-Bukhari, 2590
sahih

Narrated Asma:

Once I said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) ! I have no property except what has been given to me by Az-Zubair (i.e. her husband). May I give in charity?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Give in charity and do not withhold it; otherwise Allah will withhold it back from you . "

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَاصِمٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ، عَنْ عَبَّادِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ ـ رضى الله عنها ـ قَالَتْ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا لِي مَالٌ إِلاَّ مَا أَدْخَلَ عَلَىَّ الزُّبَيْرُ فَأَتَصَدَّقُ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏

‏ تَصَدَّقِي، وَلاَ تُوعِي فَيُوعَى عَلَيْكِ ‏

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In-Book Reference
Book 51, Hadith 24
USC-MSA web (English) reference
Vol. 3, Book 47, Hadith 763 (deprecated numbering scheme)
Sharh · explanationclick to expand
A wife is entrusted with her husband’s wealth and she shall be held accountable by Allah, Exalted is He, for it. It is incumbent on her to preserve his wealth, take care of it, take from it what she needs only (without excess or waste), and spend from it reasonably. In this hadeeth Asmaa’ bint Aboo Bakr Al-Siddeeq (may Allah be pleased with them) relates that she once said to the Prophet ﷺ, "O Allah's Messengerﷺ! I have no property except what has been given to me by Al-Zubayr ibn Al-‘Awwaam (i.e., her husband),” meaning he gave her to spend therefrom on the household needs. She (may Allah be pleased with her) added: “May I give in charity therefrom?" The Prophet ﷺ said, "Give in charity and do not withhold it; otherwise Allah, Exalted is He, will withhold it back from you.” The Prophet’s ﷺstatement means, ‘Do not withhold wealth, but rather spend in charity, for withholding wealth may be a cause for being deprived of having it blessed and increased by Allah, Exalted is He. Another version of the hadeeth recorded by Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim reads: “Spend according to your means,” meaning spend therefrom reasonably as long as you afford it, even if you can only give very little in charity, and do not hoard wealth and refrain from spending in charity, fearing that your wealth might be exhausted, lest you would be deprived of a blessed Rizq (i.e., provisions). The Prophet ﷺ may have commanded her to do so and did not ask her to seek her husband’s permission because he ﷺ knew of the leniency of Al-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) for which he was known. It is allowable for a wife to spend reasonably from her husband’s wealth (without his knowledge) as long as she knows that he would approve of such disposal of his wealth, that he would not dislike such an act, that she habitually does so and he approves of it, or when she spends in charity small amounts that do not affect the affordability of supporting their dependents, and she would not exceed the proper limits nor aim to waste his wealth. It was narrated on the authority of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Prophet ﷺ said: “When a woman gives some of the food in her house (in charity without her husband’s prior knowledge), not wasting it, she will have her reward for what she has given and her husband will have his for what he earned. The same applies to a storekeeper; in no respect does the one diminishe the reward of the other.” [Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim]. It is deduced from the hadeeth that spending in charity is a reason for having one’s wealth blessed and increased, and that generosity begets abundant Rizq (i.e., provisions). It is also inferred therefrom that stinginess and withholding from giving (charity), especially the obligatory Zakaah, incurs the loss and ruin of wealth. .
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