Haya’ (decency, shyness) is all good and is part of faith; it is one of the praiseworthy characteristics that both men and women should seek to acquire, because it prevents a person from falling into sins. In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) tells us that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) passed by a man when he was admonishing his brother for being too decent and shy. What is meant is that he was advising him not to be too shy, because the man was very shy and that prevented him from asking people for his dues. Hence his brother rebuked him for that. But the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed him to let him continue with this good characteristic, and told him that haya’ (decency and shyness) was part of faith and one of its branches, because it prevents a person from doing what Allah has forbidden. Haya’ is of two types: the first of which is an innate characteristic and is not something that is acquired or developed later on, and this is one of the noblest characteristics that Allah may bestow on a person or create in him, for it makes him refrain from committing abhorrent deeds or engaging in base conduct, and encourages him to acquire noble and sublime characteristics. The second type is that which one may acquire after learning about Allah and about His greatness and how close He is to His slaves, and after learning that He is always watching and that He knows that which deceives the eyes and what the hearts conceal. This is one of the most sublime characteristics of faith; in fact it is one of the highest levels of ihsan..