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Riyad as-Salihin, 1667

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said:

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Two things are signs of disbelief on the part of those who indulge in them: Slandering one's lineage and wailing over the dead." <b>[Muslim]</b>.

وعن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال‏:‏ قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏:‏ ‏

‏اثنان في الناس هما بهم كفر‏:‏ الطعن في النسب، والنياحة على الميت‏

‏ ‏(‏‏(‏رواه مسلم‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏

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In-Book Reference
Book 17, Hadith 157
Sharh · explanationclick to expand
<b>Guidance from the Hadith:</b><br> 1) It is prohibited to wail over a dead person, for this is an act of disbelief and a practice of the pre-Islamic period of ignorance.<br> 2) A person who does an act of disbelief is not necessarily a disbeliever.<br> <br> <b>Benefit:</b><br> We conclude from the above Hadiths:<br> There is nothing wrong with natural weeping. But wailing, slapping cheeks, tearing clothes, and plucking, shaving, or disheveling hair at the time of afflictions are all prohibited and forbidden. The Prophet (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) disavowed these acts, on account of which the dead person suffers torment, unless he forbids them during his lifetime and instructs his family not to engage in them.
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