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Riyad as-Salihin, 1658

Ibn Mas'ud (May Allah be pleased with him) said:

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "He who (on befalling a calamity) slaps his cheeks, tears his clothes and follows the ways and traditions of the Days of Ignorance is none of us." <b>[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]</b>.

وعن ابن مسعود رضي الله عنه قال‏:‏ قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏:‏‏

‏ليس منا من ضرب الخدود، وشق الجيوب، ودعا بدعوى الجاهليه‏

‏ ‏(‏‏(‏متفق عليه‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏

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In-Book Reference
Book 17, Hadith 148
Sharh · explanationclick to expand
<b>Guidance from the Hadith:</b><br> 1) It is prohibited to act like people in the pre-Islamic period of ignorance in terms of wailing and the like. These are not Islamic manners.<br> 2) It points out the merit of patience in pursuit of divine reward at the time of afflictions and the display of contentment with the decree and predestination of Allah Almighty.
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