<b>Guidance from the Hadiths:</b><br> 1) Learning about the various forms of bliss Allah has prepared in Paradise for martyrs makes the grief of the believers over the death of loved ones more tolerable.<br> 2) There is a special merit for ‘Abdullāh, the father of Jābir, which is that the angels shaded him with their wings.<br> 3) It is permissible to weep over the death of someone, without wailing or loud crying - only sadness within the heart and tears in the eyes, along with contentment with the fate decreed by Allah Almighty and submission to it.