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Riyad as-Salihin, 985

Jabir (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "When one of you stays away (from his family) for a long period of time, let him not surprise his family by night." In another narration, Jabir (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) prohibited us from coming back to our family at night. <b>[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]</b>.

عن جابر رضي الله عنه أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال‏:‏ ‏

‏إذا أطال أحدكم الغيبة فلا يطرقن أهله ليلاً‏

‏‏ وفي رواية أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم نهى أن يطرق الرجل أهله ليلاً‏.‏ ‏(‏‏(‏متفق عليه‏)‏‏)‏

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In-Book Reference
Book 7, Hadith 30
Sharh · explanationclick to expand
<b>Guidance from the Hadiths:</b><br> 1) A traveler who was away for long is instructed not to come back to his family at night, unless he notifies them of the time of his return.<br> 2) The wisdom behind this prohibition is what the Prophet (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said: “so that the woman with unkempt hair would comb it and the woman whose husband has been absent would shave her pubic hair.” [Narrated by Al-Bukhāri and Muslim] In other words, this gives the woman time to beautify herself for her husband, according to tradition.<br> 3) Observing the Prophetic etiquettes brings all goodness and benefit for the believers. Look how this Prophetic instruction is meant to strengthen the affection and harmony between spouses?
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