<b>Guidance from the Hadith:</b><br> 1) It is recommended to sometimes give admonition at the grave in a way that softens hearts and reminds people of the Hereafter.<br> 2) The writing down of fates has already been done in the knowledge of Allah Almighty. This does not mean, however, that we rely upon our fate. Rather, we should work and seek what we want, for our written fate is unknown to us.<br> 3) A scholar should correct the mistakes and misconceptions of lay people, as the Prophet (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) used to do with his Companions.<br> Note: Every admonition should be given in a way that suits its circumstances. At the grave, the preacher should have a sense of solemnity, calmness, and fear, and he should be brief. Moreover, the grave should not be taken as a pulpit. We should follow the Prophet’s Sunnah, in which all goodness lies, and not swerve from it. Indeed, guidance of the Sunnah provides protection and mercy.<br> <br> <br> <br> <b>Words in the Hadith:</b><br> Gharqad is a known type of trees. The burial ground of the residents of Madinah is called Baqi‘ al-Gharqad given the abundance of this kind of trees there. So, it is called Al-Baqi‘ or Baqi‘ al-Gharqad.