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Riyad as-Salihin, 275

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:

Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "A believer must not hate (his wife) believing woman; if he dislikes one of her characteristics he will be pleased with another". <b>[Muslim]</b>.

- وعن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال ‏:‏ قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏:‏ ‏"‏لا يفرك مؤمن مؤمنة إن كره منها خُلقا رضي منها آخر‏"‏ أو قال ‏:‏ ‏"‏غيره‏"‏ ‏(‏‏(‏رواه مسلم‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏

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In-Book Reference
Introduction, Hadith 275
Sharh · explanationclick to expand
<b>Guidance from the Hadith:</b><br> 1) One has to adopt justice and fairness, so when your wife offends you, do not focus on the current offense, but recall the past with its kind company, as this urges the husband to pardon and forgive.<br> 2) The Shariah calls for justice, and to observe justice in the marital life one has to weigh good and bad behaviors and see which of them has more impact on their life, then let him base his judgment according to it.<br> 3) The guidelines the Prophet (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) set for dealing with women should also be followed in dealing with others, like friends and the like.