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Riyad as-Salihin, 266

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:

The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The worst food is the food of the marriage banquet from which those are left out who would like to come; and to which those are invited who refuse to come. He who rejects an invitation disobeys Allah and His Messenger". <b>[Muslim]</b>. In another narration Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "The worst food is the food of the marriage banquet to which the rich are invited and from which the poor are left out". <b>[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]</b>.

وعنه عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال‏:‏ ‏"‏ شر الطعام طعام الوليمة، يمنعها من يأتيها، ويدعى إليها من يأباها، ومن لم يجب الدعوة فقد عصى الله ورسوله‏"‏ ((رواه مسلم‏))‏.‏ وفي رواية في ‏"‏ الصحيحين‏"‏ عن أبي هريرة من قوله‏:‏ ‏"‏ بئس الطعام طعام الوليمة يدعى إليها الأغنياء ويترك الفقراء‏"‏‏‏‏(‏(متفق عليه‏)‏‏)‏.‏

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In-Book Reference
Introduction, Hadith 266
Sharh · explanationclick to expand
<b>Guidance from the Hadith:</b><br> 1) Inviting the poor and needy to the wedding banquet is encouraged, as they are more deserving of it than wealthy people.<br> 2) It is obligatory to accept the invitation to a banquet because disobedience occurs when an obligatory act is abandoned. This is inferred by the statement of the Prophet (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him): “He who rejects an invitation disobeys Allah and His Messenger.”<br> <br> <b>Benefit:</b><br> A banquet invitation here refers to the food to which people are invited in wedding occasions only.<br> Conditions for the obligatory acceptance of a banquet invitation:<br> First Condition: that the host is Muslim, otherwise, it is not obligatory to accept it. However, it is permissible to accept the invitation of a disbeliever if this would yield an interest like calling him to Islam or defending the religion.<br> Second Condition: that the money of the host is lawful, otherwise, it is not obligatory to accept it.<br> Third Condition: that there are no violations of Shariah involved, otherwise, it is not obligatory to accept it, unless the guest is able to change or alleviate the violations involved.<br> Fourth Condition: that the host identifies the guest by name when he invites him. In other words, he should say, “O so-and-so, I invite you to the wedding banquet.” If he makes a public invitation without identifying the invitees by name, then accepting the invitation is recommended rather than obligatory.
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