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Sahih al-Bukhari, 2622
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Narrated Ibn `Abbas:

The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The bad example is not for us. He who takes back his present is like a dog that swallows back its vomit."

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الْمُبَارَكِ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَارِثِ، حَدَّثَنَا أَيُّوبُ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ـ رضى الله عنهما ـ قَالَ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏

‏ لَيْسَ لَنَا مَثَلُ السَّوْءِ، الَّذِي يَعُودُ فِي هِبَتِهِ كَالْكَلْبِ يَرْجِعُ فِي قَيْئِهِ ‏

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References2 variants
In-Book Reference
Book 51, Hadith 54
USC-MSA web (English) reference
Vol. 3, Book 47, Hadith 791 (deprecated numbering scheme)
Sharh · explanationclick to expand
Taking back gifts is a reprehensible act and awful behavior that contradicts chivalry, and does not conform with a good moral character or sound human nature. Therefore, the Prophet ﷺ warned against it and likened such a deed to the ugliest and most heinous act to alienate Muslims from it. In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ stated that it is unbecoming of Muslims to approve of or do such an act; he ﷺ said, "The bad example is not for us. He who takes back his present is like a dog that swallows back its vomit.” In this hadeeth, he ﷺ likened the gift-giver who takes back his gift to a dog that swallows its vomit. The statement underlines that the believers should not do such a reprehensible act, in which we resemble animals. This simile is rarely used in the Laws of Islam texts, which indicates the gravity and heinousness of such act. The Prophet ﷺ likened it to vomit rather than any other impurity to reflect how disgusting and repugnant that is; it is quite revolting for a person to swallow his vomit, and one should detest and find it equally revolting to take back his gifts. .
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