Sharh · explanationclick to expand
The Prophet ﷺ was keen to instill goodness and adherence to true guidance within Muslims, an example of which is teaching Muslims to start with the right side in every act where it is optional; the right side is blessed since the people of the right hand (i.e., those whose books of records will be placed in their right hands) are the people of Paradise. In this hadeeth, Narrated Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺvisited their house and asked for something to drink. They milked one of their sheep, and Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) mixed it with water from the well inside their house and gave it to the Prophet ﷺ. Aboo Bakr was sitting on his left side, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) in front of him, and a Bedouin on his right side. When Allah's Messengerﷺfinished drinking, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him, “Here is Aboo Bakr!" He (may Allah be pleased with him) meant to ask the Prophet ﷺ to give him the milk, but heﷺ gave the remaining milk to the Bedouin and said twice, "The (persons on the) right side! Start from the right side,” meaning that those on one’s righthand side should be given precedence, and repeatedly emphasized it by the following command to start with the right side. Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) added, "It is an act of Sunnah," and repeated it thrice, to further stress its importance and the Prophet’s ﷺcommand in this regard. In the same vein, it was narrated on the authority of Sahl ibn Sa‘d Al-Saa‘idee (may Allah be pleased with him), and recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree, that the Prophet ﷺ was oncewas offered something to drink. He ﷺ drank of it while on his right was a boy, i.e., Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them), and on his left were some elderly people. He ﷺsaid to the boy, "May I give these (elderly) people first?" The boy said, "By Allah, O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! I will not give up my share from you to somebody else." On that, Allah's Messenger ﷺ placed the cup in the hand of that boy. In this incident, he ﷺ sought permission from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) because he was on his right side and worthier of the turn, and did not seek the Bedouin’s permission in the other hadeeth to give the milk to Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him), out of consideration of his feelings, being a new revert and lest he should assume that the Prophet ﷺ was disgusted by him, and that he ﷺ was offending him, acting upon the Arabs’ prejudice against Bedouins in the pre-Islamic era, in light of the Bedouins’ reputation for being harsh and discourteous. Moreover, he ﷺ sought the permission of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) to offer the beverage to the elderly and elite of his people, as he ﷺ was confident that he (may Allah be pleased with him) would not mind being asked to do so, and out of courtesy and consideration for the elderly people, and also to edify those who did not know on the relevant ruling and that he ﷺ could not deny the one on his right hand his turn except with his permission. As for the fact that other Laws of Islam texts have been reported regarding giving precedence to elderly people, there is no contradiction between their indication and the command to start with one’s right hand; giving precedence to the elderly people should be done when all the concerned people are of equal statuses (as far as all other qualities are concerned). In this case, the older person should be given precedence. The same goes for the case when a group of people do not sit in order, i.e., ranked by age; in this case the older ones should be given precedence. However, if they sat down in order, the one sitting on the right side should be given precedence, and he is more deserving of it than the elder. It is deduced from the hadeeth that the act of Sunnah is to give the beverage to the one on the right side, even if the one on the left side is more virtuous. .