Hadithcore
Sahih al-Bukhari, 296
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Narrated `Urwa:

A person asked me, "Can a woman in menses serve me? And can a Junub woman come close to me?" I replied, "All this is easy for me. All of them can serve me, and there is no harm for any other person to do the same. `Aisha told me that she used to comb the hair of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) while she was in her menses, and he was in I`tikaf (in the mosque). He would bring his head near her in her room and she would comb his hair, while she used to be in her menses."

حَدَّثَنَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ مُوسَى، قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، أَنَّ ابْنَ جُرَيْجٍ، أَخْبَرَهُمْ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي هِشَامٌ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، أَنَّهُ سُئِلَ أَتَخْدُمُنِي الْحَائِضُ أَوْ تَدْنُو مِنِّي الْمَرْأَةُ وَهْىَ جُنُبٌ فَقَالَ عُرْوَةُ كُلُّ ذَلِكَ عَلَىَّ هَيِّنٌ، وَكُلُّ ذَلِكَ تَخْدُمُنِي، وَلَيْسَ عَلَى أَحَدٍ فِي ذَلِكَ بَأْسٌ، أَخْبَرَتْنِي عَائِشَةُ أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ تُرَجِّلُ ـ تَعْنِي ـ رَأْسَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ، وَرَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم حِينَئِذٍ مُجَاوِرٌ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ، يُدْنِي لَهَا رَأْسَهُ وَهْىَ فِي حُجْرَتِهَا، فَتُرَجِّلُهُ وَهْىَ حَائِضٌ‏.‏

References2 variants
In-Book Reference
Book 6, Hadith 3
USC-MSA web (English) reference
Vol. 1, Book 6, Hadith 295 (deprecated numbering scheme)
Sharh · explanationclick to expand
Among the Jews, when one of their women menstruated, they would banish her from the house, and they would not eat with her, drink with her or be in the same room as her. In our religion, however, the menstruating woman is not to be blamed for something that Allah has ordained for her, so her body is pure, apart from the place where the impurity is. In this report, the Tabi‘i Hisham ibn ‘Urwah narrates that someone asked his father, ‘Urwah ibn al-Zubayr: Is it permissible for a menstruating woman to take care of him or to come close to him? Or for a woman who has become junub as a result of an erotic dream or intercourse to do that? ‘Urwah explained to him that there is nothing wrong with a woman who is menstruating or is junub taking care of someone else, or coming close to someone else; she may take care of him when she is menstruating or is junub, with no reservations, and she does not incur any sin. Then he narrated that ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to comb the hair of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) when she was menstruating and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was observing i‘tikaf in the mosque at that time. He would bring his head close to her when she was in her apartment and the rest of his body was in the mosque, and he was aware of her condition and that she was menstruating. Her apartment was attached to the mosque. Even though this hadith indicates that it is permissible for a menstruating woman to take care of her husband and others, it also indicates that it is permissible for a woman who is junub to be close to other people and to take care of others. This is understood by analogy with the woman who is menstruating; what they have in common is major impurity, and this is a clear analogy. The hadith refers to combing a man’s hair, and includes other things that come under the heading of adorning oneself. It indicates that a menstruating woman may care for her husband and help him with personal hygiene. It indicates that if the one who is observing i‘tikaf puts his head, hand or foot outside the mosque, that does not invalidate his i‘tikaf. It highlights the Prophet’s kind treatment of his wives, and how he would understand their situation and condition. It indicates that the body and clothing of the menstruating woman are pure (tahir). .